We attract what we vibrate

"Opposites attract.." 

You've heard that one before right?

But the truth is, we always attract what our vibration is. Now maybe you will say, "No way I attracted this situation, or that person.." Well this can take any form, but the mind is limited to understand. It likes to make categories and put labels and such, trying to make things less complicated only to do the opposite.. to bring even more confusion and disconnection from what really is. That being said, yes it might seem that opposites attract but they share the same or similar vibration. They are a vibrational match.

When something or someone comes into your experience is merely a reflection of how "you are doing" in the inside. Furthermore when you start blaming outside factors for how you feel you disempower yourself, you take away your own power and your innate ability to create worlds - well, Your world. Then the "outer" world will respond to that.

Claiming yourself and standing your ground and in your truth is the way to go about this. By taking care of how you feel and tending to your vibration first IS the basis to achieve all that you desire. It's going right in the Source of things. It is futile to do otherwise. The Universe has a way of guiding us to our highest path and our highest good, but if we don't tend to us first, that guidance and nudging might feel like a painful push and a hell of a ride. 

"You gotta care about the way you feel more than anything else."
~ Abraham Hicks 

So make things easier for yourself. Tend to how you feel first, then go about your day. Make some time to meditate and clear your mind, speak nice to yourself, do an activity - something that pleases you and brings you joy. Start from a good place and it's a promise that things will unfold much better for you, and if you make that a habit, then you can really enjoy this life in all of its fullness and magnificence.. and your problems will slowly start to dissipate and fall into place too. 

I am not saying you will live a life without any problem that is not the case since life happens from the opposites and the contrast, which in turn further defines our desires, what we want and what we don't want. We are always evolving so we will always have more desires and crave for expansion. But wouldn't you want to live a life where it's mostly happiness and joy, instead of struggle and pain? Wouldn't you want to live the life you always dreamt of, and work with the Universe instead of against it? 

By letting go of control, you gain control. 

We cannot control anything outside of us, this is an illusion. It's like having an illness and taking all these medicines and doing therapies to treat the symptoms of the disease, instead of going into the source and the cause of it.. The symptoms might go away for a while but there's a good chance the disease will come back, or another one will. And that's not a stable way of living, nor long-lasting happiness. By tapping into the Source and taking care of you first will allow you then to tend to everything else effectively and in the long term. 

Vibrate what you want, the Source is always within you, loving you unconditionally. Waiting for you to go there patiently, lovingly and forever. And you are the Source itself too. Each one of us is a Universe within the Universe. We are vibrational, limitless beings.. and limits exist only in the mind. And most importantly.. be easy on yourself for where you are now. Where you are is not Who you are. Appreciate the progress, see how much you've grown through the years. It's a process, a step every time. You've heard it before, it's all about the journey.. So I wish you all a great one!

Until next time, 

ℳℴℛℱ  xx