Letting Go

Holding on to someone can feel like being a fish on a hook. 

It’s slow and painful and in the end you can lose your world. 

So let them go, and make them let you go.

~ℳℴℛℱ

Alignment

Heaven or hell,  

good or bad,  

positive or negative, 

love or hatred,  

effortless or struggling,  

ease or tension,  

joy or depression,  

vigorousness or apathy,  

It all means allowing our connection to Source or not.. 

Being in alignment or not  

That is all ~ 

~ℳℴℛℱ

The Triggers Are The Guides

If you can grasp this: Nothing has to do with others. It all has to do with you. 

Nothing others say or do can affect you, if you’re standing your ground and in your truth - if you know who you are.  

(How you do that? By spending time alone and getting to know YOU).

Nothing can trigger you, if you don’t already have the triggers within you. Others are simply a mirror of you. And that’s just how it is.

~ ℳℴℛℱ 

Dreamer

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for
and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.
I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool
for love
for your dream
for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...
I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow
if you have been opened by life's betrayals
or have become shrivelled and closed
from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain
mine or your own
without moving to hide it
or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy
mine or your own
if you can dance with wildness
and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes
without cautioning us
to be careful
to be realistic
to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me
is true.
I want to know if you can
disappoint another
to be true to yourself.
If you can bear the accusation of betrayal
and not betray your own soul.

I want to know if you can see Beauty
even when it is not pretty
every day.
And if you can source your own life
from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure
yours and mine
and still stand at the edge of the lake
and shout to the silver of the full moon,
"Yes."

It doesn't interest me who you know
or how you came to be here.
I want to know if you will stand
in the centre of the fire
with me
and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom
you have studied.
I want to know what sustains you
from the inside
when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone
with yourself
and if you truly like the company you keep
in the empty moments.

~Oriah Mountain Dreamer, from her book THE INVITATION. (c) 1999.

True Self

They wanted her to be a certain way so they love her, 

and so she never was the way they wanted her to be.

~ ℳℴℛℱ

Comfort is overrated

We attract what we vibrate

"Opposites attract.." 

You've heard that one before right?

But the truth is, we always attract what our vibration is. Now maybe you will say, "No way I attracted this situation, or that person.." Well this can take any form, but the mind is limited to understand. It likes to make categories and put labels and such, trying to make things less complicated only to do the opposite.. to bring even more confusion and disconnection from what really is. That being said, yes it might seem that opposites attract but they share the same or similar vibration. They are a vibrational match.

When something or someone comes into your experience is merely a reflection of how "you are doing" in the inside. Furthermore when you start blaming outside factors for how you feel you disempower yourself, you take away your own power and your innate ability to create worlds - well, Your world. Then the "outer" world will respond to that.

Claiming yourself and standing your ground and in your truth is the way to go about this. By taking care of how you feel and tending to your vibration first IS the basis to achieve all that you desire. It's going right in the Source of things. It is futile to do otherwise. The Universe has a way of guiding us to our highest path and our highest good, but if we don't tend to us first, that guidance and nudging might feel like a painful push and a hell of a ride. 

"You gotta care about the way you feel more than anything else."
~ Abraham Hicks 

So make things easier for yourself. Tend to how you feel first, then go about your day. Make some time to meditate and clear your mind, speak nice to yourself, do an activity - something that pleases you and brings you joy. Start from a good place and it's a promise that things will unfold much better for you, and if you make that a habit, then you can really enjoy this life in all of its fullness and magnificence.. and your problems will slowly start to dissipate and fall into place too. 

I am not saying you will live a life without any problem that is not the case since life happens from the opposites and the contrast, which in turn further defines our desires, what we want and what we don't want. We are always evolving so we will always have more desires and crave for expansion. But wouldn't you want to live a life where it's mostly happiness and joy, instead of struggle and pain? Wouldn't you want to live the life you always dreamt of, and work with the Universe instead of against it? 

By letting go of control, you gain control. 

We cannot control anything outside of us, this is an illusion. It's like having an illness and taking all these medicines and doing therapies to treat the symptoms of the disease, instead of going into the source and the cause of it.. The symptoms might go away for a while but there's a good chance the disease will come back, or another one will. And that's not a stable way of living, nor long-lasting happiness. By tapping into the Source and taking care of you first will allow you then to tend to everything else effectively and in the long term. 

Vibrate what you want, the Source is always within you, loving you unconditionally. Waiting for you to go there patiently, lovingly and forever. And you are the Source itself too. Each one of us is a Universe within the Universe. We are vibrational, limitless beings.. and limits exist only in the mind. And most importantly.. be easy on yourself for where you are now. Where you are is not Who you are. Appreciate the progress, see how much you've grown through the years. It's a process, a step every time. You've heard it before, it's all about the journey.. So I wish you all a great one!

Until next time, 

ℳℴℛℱ  xx

She / He will not entertain you..

I am Complete, Limitless. Deliberate creator

I don't need you to heal me or save me

I want you to join me in joy.

I don't need you to fill in my void

I don't have a void!

Life is easier and more fun when kept simple and going with the flow. Inspired action instead of "efforted" action. Tapping into yourself and let everyone and everything else out. (Don't worry, you will connect with everything in a deeper level once you do that..it's not about isolating yourself and living in a bubble).

In the end, the world surrounding you, including your body - your vessel - is a reflection of what's going on inside of you. Your thoughts, your emotions (largely created by your thoughts), your beliefs (thoughts you keep thinking), what you vibrate. We live in a Law of Attraction Universe, there is no exclusion.. (meaning that when you focus on what you don't want, you still attract what you don't want).

Vibrate what you want because it's already there you only need to allow it into your experience. It's already created, the physical is just the ultimate expression of it. If you can dream it, you can do it, and if you desire it, then you can have it. The Universe is infinitely abundant and so are you. Let that sink in, the only limits you perceive are the ones you create for yourself. Even the limiting thoughts you are having now as you are reading this, are creating your reality. Be really aware. We create every moment. Be conscious creators and have fun with it =) 

We came here to enjoy life in all its glory and magnificence, not to strive and suffer. Uproot your damaging belief systems, forget everything you've been taught. No one knows better than you, the Inner You, your Inner Being, the Source within us all. That is unlimited Power. And we are limitless. Peace ~

"Ego says, once everything falls into place, I'll feel peace. Spirit says, find your peace, and then everything will fall into place".

ℳℴℛℱ  xx